Girl’s are amazing
I think we broke the notes…
i feel like i’m reblogging history. “the post that broke the notes”
THERE ARE NO FUCKING NOTES
WE HAVE REACHED INFINITY
what the heLL
There are negative notes….
WHY ARE THERE NEGATIVE NOTES?
HOW ARE THERE NEGATIVE NOTES?!?!?!?!
Anonymous asked: a lot of your posts make it seem like you are in love (: i was wondering if you had any tips on what a healthy relationship looks like? im not sure if this guy is the one for me. plz be thorough if its not to much trouble Ate ty! <33
LOL um wow. This was unexpected.
Okay, first of all, I am in no way an expert about relationships. I’m not even 19 yet - there’s so much of my heart (and more importantly, God’s heart) that I need to learn about.
But… because I’m really lame and in no way could a certain someone ever come across this post… I’m going to answer this very, very personally, my dear little anonymous ‘ading’ :)
Communication is so key. It’s how you express your love for each other and the only way you’ll ever be able to grow. Y’all aren’t mind readers; when you’re upset or happy, no matter what you’re feeling, tell each other that. If you want this to work, it takes honesty, commitment, and the courage to be vulnerable. Remember that this relationship isn’t an end destination, it’s a beautiful, mysterious journey that you’ve been blessed not to have to walk alone. Never take that for granted. True love is about putting each other first, but being convicted in who you are and what you deserve and reminding each other of that as well.
And…. I don’t know. Does he make you want to be better? I’m not saying passively - don’t be blinded by how much you care for him. I mean does he inspire you, ignite something within you that can’t be put out? Can you bare your soul knowing acceptance and understanding will fall from his lips? Even in the arguments and misunderstandings, do you trust that you’ll come out at the end stronger than ever before? Does he believe in you and your dreams and teach you to have faith in the things that matter - to have faith in him and in God? Is your love more than just a feeling, but a choice you’re willing to make again and again?
I hope that all makes sense.
It’s not wrong to wait. PLEASE for the love of all things holy take your time and pray like your heart depends on it (because it does hehe). Ecclesiastes 3:11 all the way. And one more thing: you can never really attain the love you yearn for if you don’t attain real love for yourself and the greatest Love of all.
Praying for you!